Islamic Culture

I’m looking upon the Islamic Center of Missouri and the scene is simply exquisite. Its midday and I’m looking upon the Islamic Center of Missouri.  The mosque is covered in yellow brick, its further accented with brown brick creating many Middle Eastern looking triangles around the building.

As I walk toward the back entrance I look upon a men’s only entrance. Next to it is another entrance with a paper sign.  I decide to proceed through the door with the paper sign assuming it must be for everyone.

I’m panicked. I’ve been raised Christian my whole life. I knew very little of the Islamic faith and I’m sweating. It’s the middle of June in Columbia, Missouri.

The Islamic faith is considerably more modest than my own so in response I respectfully dress modestly. When getting ready I look in my closet and realized my options were slim. Finally, I decide on my work pants, a long sleeve sweater with a tank top underneath, my hair put tightly in a bun, and no makeup.

It’s 80 degrees out, yet contrary to the way I thought I would feel, I am feeling empowered. In the past I’ve thought having to cover your shoulders and knees would feel oppressive although to my disbelief I feel comfortable, respectable, a little warm, but at peace.

30 minutes early for the 5:00 prayer, I decide to stride right in. The mosque is a ghost town. No one is here yet. Nevertheless, all the doors are unlocked and open. The trust they have is astounding.

At first glance I see a dark room with stacked chairs, then a kitchen to my right, and a bathroom on my left. The recognizable rooms put me at some ease.

I walk to the bathroom awkwardly looking for people. To my left are bathroom stalls and to my right I see the most interesting washing station. There are stone seats and faucets in front of the seats.

I help myself around the building. Everywhere I look I see beautiful writing in Arabic. Some is accented with gold coloring. There are so many colors. It’s stunning. There are also posters with writing in Arabic that advertises different events their mosque is having.

I then stroll toward the prayer room. There are many signs reminding visitors to turn off their cell phone and to be respectful of their “brothers”.

I nervously peek into the prayer room. It is silent. There are chairs on the side. I stand there in silence and just listen to the sound of peace here. The room is warm and comfortable. There is a small spot in the front of the room for someone to speak and darkly tinted windows in the back of the room.

Finally, I end up at the front entrance. There are some seats and a shoe rack. I sit by the door in the serenity of this holy place listening to cars drive by. A few people walk through to the prayer room, some speaking in Arabic.

What brings this adventure full circle is the person I see in the parking lot as I am leaving.

I walk slowly toward my car now less nervous and just enjoying the serenity of a holy place. When I see one of our regular customers at my place of work running toward me and another man who is getting into his car.

The man getting into his car has a full set of gold teeth. He smiles politely to me. He then sees the man running toward me and kindly waves to him. I relax a little as I realize he wasn’t running to me.

The interesting thing about the running man is that for the longest time he made me feel very uncomfortable. He had a hard time communicating with my coworkers and I. He  would often yell when placing an order possibly hoping that if he speaks up we may be better able to understand him.

Seeing this man being casual with one of his fellows brought the whole trip full circle. I had judged a man with a different belief system and language than my own simply because we weren’t the same. However, seeing him in his comfort zone and holy place of worship opened my eyes to the importance of understanding.

With a little over 4,000 people practicing Islam in Columbia I feel like as I leave this place I have collected important thoughtfulness crucial to accepting different practices of other people. Information taken here could be used to shed light on the Islamic faith and maybe open minds of readers to the vast amount of different religions in their town, state, or country.

 

 

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Give me a “Straighjacket”

Currently, I live in a tiny, overpriced, basement of an apartment that always ends up being the butt of the joke but is truly very loved. It’s like a wart that you kinda hate but still appreciate because it adds a little character to your life.

 

One of my favorite things about the apartment is the people I live with. Together, the four of us share our quant cave.

 

My roommates and myself, like many college students, have super stressful lives. We’ll come home at midnight or 1 pm on most nights and pop open a bottle of wine to destress from our days. Sometimes they force me to meditate with them and other times we just sit and listen to music.

 

These little jam sessions are where we find a little piece in our busy lives to just enjoy each other’s company and not think about the 19 exams we have next week or all of the projects that we are pretty certain are ruining our lives.

 

It was during one of these nights that my roommate Allie shared a funky little pop song by a guy who goes by Quinn XCII. This song was “Straightjacket”.

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I immediately fell in love with this dude. His beats caught my attention. In the beginning, there’s this beat that hits 3 times and works you into this funny but upbeat moment you’re about to have.

 

I really like Quinn because his music is humorous. This song is about a crazy girl he dated who he calls a “Psycho from a Midwest suburb”. I’m slightly concerned because I kinda relate to this girl so I should probably work on that….

 

He also has a song on the same album called “You’re the Worst” which is a hilarious song that I think just about anyone who has ever had a relationship

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So check it out and let me know what you think. If you have any suggestions on songs you want me to cover, comment or message me.

 

Here ya go ya psychos

Kris Kringling your early holiday tunes

Is it too early to be listening to Christmas music? This question tends to be the object of a lot of debate around this time of the year. It’s hardly been Thanksgiving but Christmas lights are already going up and that one overzealous radio station has started playing “I Want a Hippopotamus for Christmas” on repeat. I mean for Christ’s sake, it’s not even December people (pun intended).

 

But, we Americans live in a fast-paced environment where, in the words of the great Ricky Bobby “If you’re not first, you’re last.”

 

So, we start early, Halloween decorations hit the shelves in early September. Christmas decorations are even worse. It’s November 1st and Walmart is already decking the halls, and aisle ways, with Christmas lights and giant tacky blow up snowmen.

 

We leave no time to give thanks on Thanksgiving. Black Friday used to start at the ass crack of dawn but now it begins mid thanksgiving meal.

 

To make matters worse, Christmas songs are jingling their way into all of my Pandora and Spotify stations. Some may argue that it is never too early to celebrate Christmas. Your neighborhood early decorators are the holly jolly elves that celebrate half Christmas or leave their decorations out year-round. Proceed in caution when you meet these Christmas fiends. Keep your guard up or before you know it, it’ll be November 29th and you’ll be singing Christmas carols in an ugly Christmas sweater with no idea why.

 

Don’t get me wrong, I freaking love Christmas. Santa is my homie and I dig a fat glass of spiked eggnog while I cozy up next to the fire. But, I can only take so much of “The Jingle Bell Rock” or Lady Gaga’s “Christmas Tree”.

 

I’m sure many of you are already working toward your New Year’s resolution (even though it’s not even December) but let’s try to make it our joined resolution to enjoy each holiday when it comes and to live a little in each moment.

 

Don’t rush this holiday season. When the time comes, listen to the terrible Christmas music, make Santa cookies, and show the ones you love that you care. No rush, one step at the time my friends.

 

Happy (pretty much) holidays.

Younger Now

Miley Cyrus has always been one of my favorite artists. From Hannah Montana to Bangerz all the way to her new album: Younger Now. I’ve always thought that Miley was one of the realest funky artists out there. I respect the way that she crosses boundaries with a bang.

 

She’s crossed boundaries once more with her new album Younger Now. In this album, Miley uses her country music background and adds a little rock.  I am surprised that she didn’t do something like this sooner considering her dad Billy Ray Cyrus and her godmother Dolly Parton both are famous for their country music.

 

But on the other hand, if she would have hopped into a country rock career early she would have a much harder time coming out of it. So this album is really a long time coming.

 

I’m not a huge country fan but one thing I really like about this album is Mileys use of strong vocals. In Bangerz, Miley had very few strong vocals. She has such a great sound, it was sad to see her not using it in her past albums.

 

Bad mood is turning out to be her token song on this album. This song is really deep and uses a really good balance between rock and country depending on the version you listen to. On Nov. 4, 2017, Miley sang Bad Mood on SNL. She starts off with incredible vocals. The sheer force of her voice is incredible. Then the band hits and you get the rock and roll style that is sprinkled throughout her album. Take a look and for an added bonus: Miley, Liam Hemsworth, and Chris Hemsworth, did an SNL skit on the same night so peep that below.

 

 

Fresh and Funky

 

From West Philadelphia born and raised, on the playground is where I spent most of my days.

 

I know that if you know that lyric then there is no doubt that you are working your way through the rest of Will Smith’s catchy intro to the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. If you don’t know this lyric then I highly encourage you to immediately hop online and watch Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. It’s time you catch up on one of the best shows in the 90s.

 

Growing up, one of the best sounds late at night was the beginning sounds of the tambourine before you hear Will Smith hop in on the beat with “This is a story all about how…” I would stay up late way after my bedtime when I was a kid just to watch Fresh Prince. Now I know what you’re thinking, ‘this girl is a rebel’ but sometimes you have to break some rules for the things you love. So, I would say sayonara to sleep and hello to Nick at Night.

 

I’ve always been a huge fan of 90s music, especially 90s rap. Consequentially, I love the Fresh Prince opening. It’s super funny and (not to toot my own horn here) I can rap the whole thing. It’s okay to be impressed. No no just kidding. All joking aside, these songs are super high beat and more of a soft rap that most people enjoy.

 

So, with that being said, here are some funky Fresh Prince songs that are super corny but they definitely bring back good memories. This first video is Parents Just Don’t Understand by the Fresh Prince and DJ Jazzy Jeff. This one is just about as corny as it gets but I like the story line and I think they made this piece really interesting for the time period it was in. If nothing else, looking at how old school it is, is just enjoyable in itself.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jW3PFC86UNI

 

Here’s the big finish: Will Smith dancing in a morph suit dressed as a sunflower. You’re welcome.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gLq217dmwPo&index=5&list=RDRlARnJVO7Zs

 

  1. I am having way too much fun with this blog. Here’s Jimmy Fallon doing the Fresh Prince intro

 

A Culture of Kindness

bonnarooMy first festival experience happened the same way I imagen most people’s do, it was a spontaneous (and expensive) buy.

I had this whimsical idea of what a music festival looked like and felt like. With that in mind, I prepared to put on my flower crown and become an Instagram model. Little did I know, there was so much I had to learn.

Festival culture is as real as any culture. When you walk into the festival community people treat you differently. As soon as I passed the boundaries of Bonnaroo’s checkpoint I immediately felt the mutual respect people had for one and another.

When we arrived, it was 3 a.m. Sluggish from the drive, my boyfriend and I immediately started setting up our tent so we could get some sleep for the days ahead.

My boyfriend brought his dad’s tent which was old and outdated. The bars were difficult to put together and the top of it hardly fit. It’s safe to say, we were struggling.

But, only a few minutes into our struggle, our neighbors greeted us and asked how we were doing. Just a reminder, this is at 3 a.m. when they surely have been driving for hours and are exhausted.

Instead of going into their already prepared tent and sleeping, like any normal human would, they insisted upon helping us.

In this moment, we experienced the first of many acts of kindness that are simply a part of the culture at music and arts festivals. People treat people selflessly. There wasn’t a moment that the festival community didn’t treat us with kindness and respect. They didn’t do this because they had to, it was because they wanted to.

Kindness is a cultural piece that extends out of each festival goer onto another. If they can make the experience better for others, in an essence, that is what it is all about.

It is about reaching out to another person and grabbing their hand, telling them that you believe this moment is as important to them as it is to you.

If it weren’t for our neighbors, we probably would have been sleeping in the car. It is the small acts of kindness that make the biggest difference.

Festival culture is real, it is powerful, and I wish it was constant. It makes me wonder, what would the world be like if we all treated each other this way?

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An Era of Epics

I’ve been thinking a lot recently about the eras of music. Each decade had a distinct sound and feeling behind the music. There will always be a wide range of music in every decade but the 70s seriously bred out some legends. Honestly, if there was a generation I could time travel to it would be this one. So, let’s look at the key players, shall we?

 

Let’s just begin this strong: The Jackson 5

jackson 5.gifTheir first four singles all hit number one. This is a larger-than-life success. Not only were they the first to achieve this, but they also laid a path toward the Jackson mania that began shortly after. These guys invented the 70s groove.

 

Led Zeppelin

Of course, and Hide from That 70s Show wouldn’t disagree. Led Zeppelin was extremely influential in its time. Even though they aren’t together, they have continued their influence into the present by inspiring bands like Megadeth, Black Sabbath, and Queen. Major artists of this time like Lady Gaga and Shakira have even mentioned their influence.

 

Elton John

I’m just going to hit you with a few songs here: Rocketman, Crocodile Rock, and Tiny Dancer. What your favorite Elton John song? Rocketman always get me pumped its funky and upbeat. This song gets me just about as hype as Shaggy’s It Wasn’t Me. Rocketman comes on at a party and you can expect every person to start belting the lyrics. Legendary.

 

The man, the myth, the legend: Stevie Wonder

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Stevie Wonder had his first song in the Hit 100 when he was just 13 years old. I don’t know about you, but when I was 13 years-old I think I was too busy looking at boys and dealing with puberty to realize my future goals let alone be majorly successful at them. Not only that, but he has won over 22 Grammys. Lol same.

 

The Grateful Dead

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I am a sucker for the Grateful Dead. My parents have been big fans for as long as I can remember. My dad, now 47, still has his tie-dye Dead shirt that has more moth holes in it than there is actual fabric. The Grateful dead was known for their impressive live shows. The musicians went on memorable and unique tangents in their shows so each one was not the same. In the 70s they crossed musical boundaries with musical styles like Alternate American, Space Jazz, and Epic Hippie Disco. No other band has had this type of overreaching unique musical talent and that’s why

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I know this short list includes a lot of male powerhouses but there were many others that helped create the amazing and unstoppable power of what we call 70s music. Choosing just a few was difficult and honestly a toss-up. With that being said, here are some others I would consider essential to this era: Donna Summers, The Rolling Stones, Bob Dylan, Marvin Gaye, Neil Young, Queen, John Lennon, ABBA, Kiss, Diana Ross, Dolly Parton, Pink Floyd, The Styx, David Bowie, Bruce Springsteen, and Joni Mitchell.

 

I mean come on, the 70s were an era of epics. That’s just the undeniable truth.

The Roast: a new song by America’s sweetheart

Hi friends! It’s me again here to hit you with my weekly post and (for this week) roast. I want to preface this blog with this: I don’t like the top hits on Spotify. I think they are over played and it makes me feel like I am listening to the radio. The reason I have Spotify is to not listen to the radio so I’m sure you can see why I don’t really dig it. However, I do like a lot of the songs but definitely in small doses. I don’t dislike many songs although there are a few that ignite a chord in my soul that screams “make it stop!” every time I hear it played.

 

With that being said, I was scrolling through the “Top Hits” options on Spotify to try to give the big river we call the “main stream” a chance. While I was scrolling through the list of extremely over played songs, I saw Taylor Swift’s “Look What You Made Me Do” on the top 50. Has the musical world completely lost their mind?

 

When Taylor premiered this song on the MTV Music Awards I thought it was a joke. Certainty everyone else did too? Don’t get me wrong, I sort of like Taylor Swift and some of her songs were neat, but this one? I’m just not so sure.

 

So, without further ado, let the roast begin.

 

Copycat syndrome seems to be plaguing music artists these days, and it looks like Taylor Swift got the disease. This song is all about her old self “dying” and a new T-Swift being reborn. Okay neat, but Katy Perry decided to also do a revamp from normal to crazy about a month before and Miley Cyrus hit that theme about 3 months before with her single “Malibu”.

 

Moreover, the beat is some confusion between basement EDM and maybe some Lord with a mix of hitting electro-notes that are highly aggressive and don’t give the listener a chance to enjoy the song. Sometimes I wonder what I would do if this song came on at a party. Would I gyrate awkwardly? Maybe throw in some hitchhiker thumbs? Or just give up all together and head nod because I don’t understand the beat?

 

But people fear not! There is good news! The one and only Ellen DeGeneres made a spoof that isn’t one to miss.

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Check it out below, and for the love of all things good, don’t keep listening to this song to keep up with everyone else! It’s okay to be your own person!

 

Peace and musical blessings,

Meg

 

give it a CHANCE

I had a hard time trying to decide how I was going to get started with this blog. Do we discuss the basic badness of our bodacious Beyoncé? Or do I take you down the road less traveled and look at some of this generations greatest throwbacks? While I was struggling to decide, I accidentally discovered the greatest song this year and it doesn’t have a name.

Chance the Rapper was supposed to play his new song “Grown Ass Kid” on Sept. 26, 2017, on The Late Show with Stephan Colbert. But for reasons he didn’t want to share, he couldn’t play it. So, 48 hours before the Stephan Colbert show he wrote a new, nameless, song and it was groundbreaking.

 

Chance performs his new song with Daniel Ceaser on Sept. 26, 2017, on the Late Show with Stephan Colbert.

 

The camera zooms in on a guitar, the background is dark, and the tone immediately feels more relaxed. This is really different because typically you don’t feel this tone in most rapper’s performances and if you do it’s backed up by fast raps with a lot of passion. A great example of this is Logic’s song 1-800-273-8255 which is about suicide prevention. Logic’s song has a more intense feeling to it but lyrics are harder and faster. Chance’s song, on the other hand, is a slow rap which is unique and hard to find. I wanted to make a Pandora playlist of these type of “soft jams” and there was just nothing like what Chance does. I guess that’s what makes him so great.

 

Chance and Kinsli celebrate his 24th birthday.

 

The whole song capitalizes on his feelings about missing his daughter and his old life. His lyrics inspire listeners to want to make the world a better place (as cliché as that sounds). He touches on issues that we often turn our heads the other way about. The Flint water crisis and the Black Lives Matter movement are just a few of those issues he touches on.  Chance has recently shown a softer side of himself that gives us a greater understanding of his humble attitude and his compassion toward the world. This song, however, doesn’t just further that understanding but it creates an entirely different way of thinking about an artist who has earned his spot in stardom but may not even want it.

I think a lot of the reason why this song is so powerful is that he made it in 48 hours. He didn’t have time to make up rhetoric or to decide what was in trend or to survey the population to see what the world wants from his music. No, this was Chance sharing his feelings at an intimate level. All the things he’s been wanting to say finally having an opportunity to break through. And we all can relate.

So, give it a listen. Dim your lights, grab a glass of your favorite wine (Satek Winery Mango Moscato if you’re feeling fancy), and relax. Hopefully, you too will be inspired by his rhythms and rhymes.

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